DEAR EDITOR:

We all at one time may have misspoken … said something inappropriate for the time, misapplied a comment or simply unknowingly applied a misplaced comment; it happens. If caught quickly, most will quickly apologize, and if recognized by others, the apology will be accepted when considering the source.

It is when such comments are constantly made, deliberately applied and never followed by an apology that we have to truly take a hard look at that person. The constant speaking of such insults, such verbal abuses, truly defines that person’s character; true beliefs, and more importantly, their goals and objectives.

The term applied to such comments is microaggression … thoughts that spring from one’s true opinion, prejudiced beliefs that consciously or unconsciously come out through their daily verbal comments.

They are often ignored, taken as a joke or require further explanation by followers of the person commenting; e.g. “Here is what he really meant.”

I can accept the often misplaced comments and inappropriate remarks, but when such comments are constantly made, never followed by an apology by the person remarking, it’s time to consider the source.

Another consideration … a truly important consideration … is often these comments, planned or a hopeful outcome by the spokesperson, lead to inappropriate, damaging actions taken by others, usually the supporters or followers of the individual making the comments. This can be demonstrated during a social disturbance, a riot or an insurrection.

Although the microaggressive speech and the loudly-spoken commenter himself is not involved in such actions, their comments were the leading force.

When considering a person for an important position such as a leader, a representative or a decision maker, such microaggressive comments constantly made must be considered.

Those words and actions identify that person’s character, who they truly are, and more importantly, what they truly believe.

I believe the following proverb is applicable in the discussion: “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.”

God bless America.

JOHN P. LESEGANICH SR.

Canfield