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YOUNGSTOWN -- Donna McAuley of Poland wants people to learn from the experiences she and her daughter Amanda have had with "being different."
Donna and Amanda learned differently than other kids. But where Donna grew up being treated the same as others, Amanda was treated with medication, Donna said.
"I had the same learning skills as Amanda, but the difference was I wasn't medicated. I had to figure it out," Donna said during a short talk Thursday at the Mahoning County commissioners meeting. She was promoting a Sept. 30 walk-a-thon Donna is organizing in Poland to honor and learn from people like Amanda -- who died from drug overdose five months ago at age 27.
"Amanda never got to figure it out. She was always medicated, whether it was prescription drugs or self medicating with" marijuana, Donna said.
"We have to stop making our kids feel like they all need to be the same, learn the same, act the same. God created us different for a reason. It wasn't to zombie out our kids on medication and call them drug addicts," she said.
After graduating from high school in Poland, Amanda, then 18, moved to Los Angeles and began a career in modeling and acting in early 2020. She experienced anxiety, like anyone would, but people she met were using Xanax to cope. "It was laced with fentanyl, and it just took over her," Donna said.
Donna said she thinks anxiety is such a big part of society that it leads to dependency. "Everybody has pressure. We're all running around," she said. "And I didn't even realize they are giving everybody medication for anxiety."
Donna told the commissioners that she would like for kids who have anxiety to do what she did when she was young -- not "take a pill -- take a walk."
She said she thinks the generation Amanda grew up in is the generation "of the easy fix."
Donna put up 10 billboards in Mahoning and Trumbull counties to start to spread her message, using the money that was donated to Donna after Amanda died. Some still are up.
Amanda stayed in Los Angeles about 18 months. She won the National American Miss Ohio Teen Top Model Contest and was later crowned NAM Teen Top Model.
Her obituary said the 2014 Poland Seminary High graduate died "from street-laced fentanyl" and that "this passionate-about-life, beautiful girl could not break away from the hold drugs had on her, no matter how hard she tried."
Donna said Amanda was "so carefree and so easygoing and so fun-loving and a sweet girl who was never mean to anybody, but she couldn't figure out the stress of everybody. So it kind of gave her anxiety about, 'why is everything so go-go-go.'"
Donna's nonprofit organization is called A.M.WakeUp Call. It includes a sister who is an accountant, niece who is in marketing and niece who does graphic design.
She wants to build a school program with the funds raised at the walk-a-thon and raise awareness of stories like Amanda's. The event will have speakers as well as a 5-mile walk through Poland.
More information about the walk is available at www.amwakeupcall.org.