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Enjoy friends — and nontraditional feast

My Sentiments Exactly

Thursday has passed and the Thanksgiving plates have been cleared, but Friendsgiving certainly can continue.

There is no official origin story for Friendsgiving, but some people credit the hit show “Friends” for inspiring the concept of spending the holiday — on or around Thanksgiving — with friends.

According to Merriam-Webster, the earliest use of the term “Friendsgiving” dates back to 2007.

Friendsgiving is a delightful occasion in which friends come together to celebrate a Thanksgiving-like feast. While there are no strict rules, here are some fun and heartwarming traditions that people often embrace during Friendsgiving:

• Potluck feast: Friendsgiving is all about sharing, so a potluck-style meal is a common tradition. Each guest brings a dish, whether it’s a classic Thanksgiving staple or a unique family recipe.

• Creative menus: Unlike traditional Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving menus can be more adventurous. Think outside the turkey! Guests might bring dishes from various cuisines or experiment with fusion flavors.

• Signature cocktails: Friendsgiving often involves creative cocktails or mocktails. Guests can take turns being the mixologist and whip up festive drinks to toast the occasion.

• Gratitude circle: Before digging into the feast, gather in a circle and share what you’re thankful for. It’s a heartwarming moment that captures the spirit of gratitude.

• Mismatched tableware: Friendsgiving doesn’t require fancy china or the precision table settings often part of a Thanksgiving gathering. In fact, mismatched plates, cups and utensils add to the cozy, laid-back vibe.

• Decorate together: Friends can collaborate on decorating the space. From DIY centerpieces to fall-themed garlands, everyone contributes to the festive ambiance.

• Games and activities: After the meal, engage in fun games or activities. Board games, trivia or even a friendly round of charades can keep the laughter going.

• Photo booth fun: Set up a photo booth corner with props and a backdrop. Capture memories with silly poses and group shots.

• Leftovers exchange: Friendsgiving often means leftovers galore. Encourage guests to bring containers and divvy up the extra food to take home.

• Gratitude notes: Provide small cards or sticky notes for guests to write down what they appreciate about each other. Collect them in a jar and read them aloud later.

Remember, Friendsgiving is about creating cherished memories with chosen family — friends who feel like home.

Kimerer is a friendly columnist happy to share gratitude. Contact her at pkimerer@zoominternet.net.

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