DEAR HELOISE: While I agree with Daniel D.’s mother that flowers are best enjoyed by the living, I had to share with you that my late mom said “flowers are for the dead” when, as a kid, I presented her with a bouquet. However, later in life, she really did seem to enjoy the birthday and Mother’s Day arrangements that I would send when I couldn’t be present to spend the day with her.

•Lori, in Central Texas

Lori, whenever I visited someone and stayed at their home, I arranged to have flowers sent to my hosts as thanks for their hospitality. Everyone I knew loved receiving flowers, especially since they were usually yellow roses.

• Heloise

DEAR HELOISE: I don’t use a lot of milk, so I don’t like to buy it unless I know I will be needing it. Sometimes I need milk for a recipe that I’d like to try, so I now keep dry milk on hand. This way, I can have the milk that I need, in the amount that I need, when I need it, and without waste!

I don’t like dry milk for drinking but have found that it works perfectly to use in recipes.

• Deb R., in New England

DEAR HELOISE: I am a short woman responding to “short people problems.” I prefer to shop at 6:30-8 a.m. because the grocery stores are empty. No one is usually around to help me if there is an item I cannot reach. I started carrying a “grip ‘n’ grab” gadget, which is very handy but 30 inches long.

Then I found a toy grabber that is only 18 inches long and fits nicely in my bag. Problem solved! Several people wanted to know where I got it — a sporting goods store!

•Karen P.,

in North Carolina

DEAR HELOISE: Rather than chilling an onion to stop yourself from tearing up, stick your tongue out and breathe through your mouth when cutting. It works.

• E.S.N., in

Laguna Beach, California

DEAR HELOISE: I’d like to give a hint that I started using when I got new luggage. I I clean the wheels on my suitcase when I get home from a trip. The rag is black from all the dirt. You will be shocked at how dirty they are. Have a great day!

• Rhonda K., via email

Rhonda, having traveled as much as I have, I agree with you. The wheels on luggage roll over all kinds of dirt and puddles, picking up a ton of germs along the way. I clean the wheels of my luggage, too!

• Heloise

DEAR HELOISE: Here’s an inexpensive and easy way to make fluffy eggs without using the stovetop. I add 2 tablespoons of water to 1 egg, mix it well, and microwave it for about 48 seconds. The added water helps aerate the egg, making it light and fluffy.

• “Tiny” Bennett, in Pasadena, California