lol@webad...I understand what you are saying about the "education" comment. Funny. Falconeddy, the solutions you wrote are not the issue here. Somewhere you wrote that white people want us to succeed on our merits not our color. That statement sounds like you are basically saying ALL white people want the best for us. Not true. In that case there wouldn't be any such thing as the "KKK" or the "Republican party" lol *joking about the republicans* But seriously, you cannot speak for all caucasion people. So maybe you should of said "some white people want you to succeed on your merits" that would be true. Your remarks in this last post ^^ shows me that you have A LOT of stereotypes for African Americans. What if I said this...assuming your caucasion *which i'm sure you are*
1. Go to college because your parents are going to pay your way through while you party, drink and rape girls
2. Get a job because you knew the manager and they pulled strings for you knowing you "under" qualified.
3. Get married and cheat on your wife with your secretary.
4. Or better yet become a priest and molest little boys
5. Always disrespect your parents by telling them "I hate you, go fu** yourself"
6. Steal millions of dollars from the company your working for.
7. When you hit 40 make sure you abduct a few young teenage girls. Become a serial killer better yet.
@feloneddy....Sometimes African Americans are treated unfairly because of their race. Sorry to tell you. It happens. If you are not an African American you will NEVER understand this...maybe you can relate a little because i'm sure you have been discriminated against for something, but you will NEVER totally understand being discriminated against because your "black". Sometimes young black men ARE pulled over just because they are black. Certain cops are like that. Are all of the cops like that NO! Do all employers not hire someone because they are black NO! But it does happen. I have witnessed it plenty of times. Now I am a person who does not condemn a race because of what one or two did, but believe me when I say that almost all of us (African American) have been discriminated against because of our race. No "playing a card" on that one. And yes...there ARE African Americans who will use the race excuse knowing that is not the reason why...I have witnessed that also! Truth is on all aspects there is no "perfection" in the matter, but you should believe me when I say our race does still bother some and affects how they treat us. If you ARE indeed an African American *which I doubt* I would find it HIGHLY amazing that you have not been disrespected EVER because of your race.
@Stanly, think about it. What do homosexuals want the right to? To be treated fairly right? They should be treated fairly! We are not God, we cant condemn them. We are also ALL not perfect. We all do things that make us fall short of the glory of God! Now I feel that it is immoral to have a sexual relationship with the same sex, but how ANYBODY has sex is none of mine or your business and should not be the determining factor on how well i'm going to treat the person. Everybody should be treated according to their character. Now if that homosexual is rude then like any other rude person I will not have much respect for them. But if they have good character why cant they be treated with respect?
Well@Quail, To answer your question, my belief system really can't determine whats normal for others. I should change the word normal to "natural". Kinda of like a woman colors her hair...She has the right to, but thats not "natural". If she says to others "well this is natural to me" she has the right to feel that way but the hardcore truth is thats not the color that grows out of her head no matter how natural she wants to claim it is. Same case with the sex thing. Its "natural" to put a penis in a vagina for babies. Putting a penis in a mouth, anus, ear, nose etc. is just not natural. Now, dont get me wrong, i'm not condemning anybody because like you said at the end of the day that person decides whats best for them but the truth is truth. The way God created our private parts was for them to come together "male and female" and produce babies. Doing it any other way is not natural. And in my earlier post I was just pointing out that if a person has sex the "not natural" way they CANT condemn a homosexual because they are doing just what the homosexual do to get off!! And yes, I love all people, no I dont care if they pass a gay right law because they should be treated like human beings! People shouldn't condemn them because of their sexuality because guess what? They are not in the room with them while they are getting it on...so their sexuality has nothing to do with anybody, so people shouldn't treat them badly because of their supposed sexual preference. So what, as long as they are not in my face "getting it on" im fine. As long as ANYBODY isnt' in my face getting it on gay or straight, what the heck right do I have to treat them mean for?
A penis goes into a vagina to create children. Anything else is not normal....Even heterosexuals having oral, anal, or any other crevis of the body type of sex are distorting the normal way. I say any heterosexual male who puts his penis inside of a females mouth isn't any better than a homosexual, and like wise for females. Everybody has a mouth. If you were to close your eyes and a mouth was on your private part you wouldnt be able to tell the difference if its a male or female mouth *unless you feel a beard* lol like wise for anal, everybody has one male and female....Im saying this to say that if you feel homosexuality is so perverted *I feel its immoral* then you better not be having oral or anal sex with your "straight" partner because just what your doing, is exactly what homosexuals do to "get off".
Black men seek community solutions
lol@webad...I understand what you are saying about the "education" comment. Funny. Falconeddy, the solutions you wrote are not the issue here. Somewhere you wrote that white people want us to succeed on our merits not our color. That statement sounds like you are basically saying ALL white people want the best for us. Not true. In that case there wouldn't be any such thing as the "KKK" or the "Republican party" lol *joking about the republicans* But seriously, you cannot speak for all caucasion people. So maybe you should of said "some white people want you to succeed on your merits" that would be true. Your remarks in this last post ^^ shows me that you have A LOT of stereotypes for African Americans. What if I said this...assuming your caucasion *which i'm sure you are*
1. Go to college because your parents are going to pay your way through while you party, drink and rape girls
2. Get a job because you knew the manager and they pulled strings for you knowing you "under" qualified.
3. Get married and cheat on your wife with your secretary.
4. Or better yet become a priest and molest little boys
5. Always disrespect your parents by telling them "I hate you, go fu** yourself"
6. Steal millions of dollars from the company your working for.
7. When you hit 40 make sure you abduct a few young teenage girls. Become a serial killer better yet.
ALL STEREOTYPES! Doesn't feel good does it?
December 27, 2011 at 11:01 p.m. permalink suggest removal
Black men seek community solutions
@feloneddy....Sometimes African Americans are treated unfairly because of their race. Sorry to tell you. It happens. If you are not an African American you will NEVER understand this...maybe you can relate a little because i'm sure you have been discriminated against for something, but you will NEVER totally understand being discriminated against because your "black". Sometimes young black men ARE pulled over just because they are black. Certain cops are like that. Are all of the cops like that NO! Do all employers not hire someone because they are black NO! But it does happen. I have witnessed it plenty of times. Now I am a person who does not condemn a race because of what one or two did, but believe me when I say that almost all of us (African American) have been discriminated against because of our race. No "playing a card" on that one. And yes...there ARE African Americans who will use the race excuse knowing that is not the reason why...I have witnessed that also! Truth is on all aspects there is no "perfection" in the matter, but you should believe me when I say our race does still bother some and affects how they treat us. If you ARE indeed an African American *which I doubt* I would find it HIGHLY amazing that you have not been disrespected EVER because of your race.
December 27, 2011 at 7:33 p.m. permalink suggest removal
Seminarian speaks out for gay rights
@Stanly, think about it. What do homosexuals want the right to? To be treated fairly right? They should be treated fairly! We are not God, we cant condemn them. We are also ALL not perfect. We all do things that make us fall short of the glory of God! Now I feel that it is immoral to have a sexual relationship with the same sex, but how ANYBODY has sex is none of mine or your business and should not be the determining factor on how well i'm going to treat the person. Everybody should be treated according to their character. Now if that homosexual is rude then like any other rude person I will not have much respect for them. But if they have good character why cant they be treated with respect?
June 29, 2011 at 6:09 p.m. permalink suggest removal
Seminarian speaks out for gay rights
Well@Quail, To answer your question, my belief system really can't determine whats normal for others. I should change the word normal to "natural". Kinda of like a woman colors her hair...She has the right to, but thats not "natural". If she says to others "well this is natural to me" she has the right to feel that way but the hardcore truth is thats not the color that grows out of her head no matter how natural she wants to claim it is. Same case with the sex thing. Its "natural" to put a penis in a vagina for babies. Putting a penis in a mouth, anus, ear, nose etc. is just not natural. Now, dont get me wrong, i'm not condemning anybody because like you said at the end of the day that person decides whats best for them but the truth is truth. The way God created our private parts was for them to come together "male and female" and produce babies. Doing it any other way is not natural. And in my earlier post I was just pointing out that if a person has sex the "not natural" way they CANT condemn a homosexual because they are doing just what the homosexual do to get off!! And yes, I love all people, no I dont care if they pass a gay right law because they should be treated like human beings! People shouldn't condemn them because of their sexuality because guess what? They are not in the room with them while they are getting it on...so their sexuality has nothing to do with anybody, so people shouldn't treat them badly because of their supposed sexual preference. So what, as long as they are not in my face "getting it on" im fine. As long as ANYBODY isnt' in my face getting it on gay or straight, what the heck right do I have to treat them mean for?
June 27, 2011 at 9:33 p.m. permalink suggest removal
Seminarian speaks out for gay rights
A penis goes into a vagina to create children. Anything else is not normal....Even heterosexuals having oral, anal, or any other crevis of the body type of sex are distorting the normal way. I say any heterosexual male who puts his penis inside of a females mouth isn't any better than a homosexual, and like wise for females. Everybody has a mouth. If you were to close your eyes and a mouth was on your private part you wouldnt be able to tell the difference if its a male or female mouth *unless you feel a beard* lol like wise for anal, everybody has one male and female....Im saying this to say that if you feel homosexuality is so perverted *I feel its immoral* then you better not be having oral or anal sex with your "straight" partner because just what your doing, is exactly what homosexuals do to "get off".
June 26, 2011 at 10:16 p.m. permalink suggest removal